Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:11:31 PM
No.33233669
>>33233486
>Well thank you for that perspective. I do appreciate it.
No problem. Just be sure to look through that perspective and practice it every now and then. You can keep the perspective you already got, just keep that other one in your pocket bro.
>Howso? I want a woman that encourages, emboldens, and provides assistance to the life im trying to make for myself.
I pointed out the contradiction between wanting to take on the world and make way for yourself, on one hand, yet wanting someone else to do it with you on the other.
I should have elaborated more - I was at the waiting room for a dentist appointment so I couldn't finish my point lol - the point wasn’t to put you in a ‘gotcha’ moment. Just to call attention to the all-or-nothing/black-or-white paradigm. You want both at once. Thats good by the way, that’s exactly what you should aim for.
You can do both. But we do have to be realistic:
You want a woman who encourages and emboldens and provides assistance to your goals. What you are asking for isn’t something you can realsitically get from a woman. Not just your woman btw, any woman. And I know I may come off as generalising here, but hear me out:
Women dont know how to properly encourage men. They can soothe them, comfort them, but if you ask them to validate your struggle and guide or encourage, they’ll always come up short. Only men can do this for you, and should’ve been/should be from your father. Or at least a strong male role model, or role models of competent male peers. Ones who encourage you and embolden you.
If you seek this in women, you’ll always find yourself wanting. And from the sound of things the woman you got seems like a keeper. She is patient with your vulnerability of lacking encouragement and resolve.
Other women might chew you up and spit you out for that, for not being ‘man enough’ to handle your own shit like a stoic one-man army, shitting on your manhood for it.
>Well thank you for that perspective. I do appreciate it.
No problem. Just be sure to look through that perspective and practice it every now and then. You can keep the perspective you already got, just keep that other one in your pocket bro.
>Howso? I want a woman that encourages, emboldens, and provides assistance to the life im trying to make for myself.
I pointed out the contradiction between wanting to take on the world and make way for yourself, on one hand, yet wanting someone else to do it with you on the other.
I should have elaborated more - I was at the waiting room for a dentist appointment so I couldn't finish my point lol - the point wasn’t to put you in a ‘gotcha’ moment. Just to call attention to the all-or-nothing/black-or-white paradigm. You want both at once. Thats good by the way, that’s exactly what you should aim for.
You can do both. But we do have to be realistic:
You want a woman who encourages and emboldens and provides assistance to your goals. What you are asking for isn’t something you can realsitically get from a woman. Not just your woman btw, any woman. And I know I may come off as generalising here, but hear me out:
Women dont know how to properly encourage men. They can soothe them, comfort them, but if you ask them to validate your struggle and guide or encourage, they’ll always come up short. Only men can do this for you, and should’ve been/should be from your father. Or at least a strong male role model, or role models of competent male peers. Ones who encourage you and embolden you.
If you seek this in women, you’ll always find yourself wanting. And from the sound of things the woman you got seems like a keeper. She is patient with your vulnerability of lacking encouragement and resolve.
Other women might chew you up and spit you out for that, for not being ‘man enough’ to handle your own shit like a stoic one-man army, shitting on your manhood for it.