Ladies:
A man owning a cat and cuddling with it often and lovingly referring to it as "kitten" like it's an e-gf and giving him kisses on his big tomcat jowels. Is this a green flag or a red flag? More simply: in the shadow of this information are we talking Nile levels of grool or al-wadi al-gadid levels of dryness?
This is very important.