Anonymous
6/21/2025, 2:02:26 PM
No.33253676
>>33253659
Sure, I don't necessarily disagree although I think I would say that you can't be too strict about the length of grief or sorrow; everyone is different and some will take more or less time than others. But there's certainly a limit. And I agree that people can and do regularly abuse the leeway people give others who've suffered a loss or whatever to manipulate people into taking care of them and allowing them to acquiesce their own responsibilities. Really I think I only disagreed with you initially because your statement was short and very black and white. I just hope that in your personal life, when it comes to a partner experiencing hardship, you know when to thread the needle between being there and being taken advantage of. It can be pretty delicate, but I'm guessing you speak from experience so I'm not telling you the news.
Sure, I don't necessarily disagree although I think I would say that you can't be too strict about the length of grief or sorrow; everyone is different and some will take more or less time than others. But there's certainly a limit. And I agree that people can and do regularly abuse the leeway people give others who've suffered a loss or whatever to manipulate people into taking care of them and allowing them to acquiesce their own responsibilities. Really I think I only disagreed with you initially because your statement was short and very black and white. I just hope that in your personal life, when it comes to a partner experiencing hardship, you know when to thread the needle between being there and being taken advantage of. It can be pretty delicate, but I'm guessing you speak from experience so I'm not telling you the news.