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See what? That there is nuance to it? Yeah ofc, but as I said, the people that think there is no nuance to it are exactly the people that need that advice.
>You seem miserable
Because I think endless whining is pathetic?
>How often do you reckon you complain about stuff to others? How often do others listen?
In general I only tell people what bothers me if they ask. The people around me, I have told repeatedly that I prefer to just deal with stuff on my own since talking about it just gives it more stage presence for absolutely no reason. Or are you making the argument that one can only have an idea of what ideal human behavior would look like if one is able to always pull it off oneself 100%?