Anonymous
7/15/2025, 5:47:48 PM
No.33367323
>>33367290
Meet her where she's at. She's clearly not at that level of intimacy and sweetness. The whole "no pressure" thing also is telegraphing that you feel like she has the upper hand here and that you're not convinced that she's interested (which sounds like you believe both of those things)
Invite her to somewhere specific at one particular time. If she says no, offer another time and ask if she has a time that works better for her. If she says no again, say something like, alright well I'm generally available these days of the week so if you ever want to meet up, let me know"
Leave the ball in her court at that point.
If you absolutely cannot hold yourself back from double/triple/quadruple texting, please leave more time between your questions than TWO HOURS. That is extremely overwhelming.
Meet her where she's at. She's clearly not at that level of intimacy and sweetness. The whole "no pressure" thing also is telegraphing that you feel like she has the upper hand here and that you're not convinced that she's interested (which sounds like you believe both of those things)
Invite her to somewhere specific at one particular time. If she says no, offer another time and ask if she has a time that works better for her. If she says no again, say something like, alright well I'm generally available these days of the week so if you ever want to meet up, let me know"
Leave the ball in her court at that point.
If you absolutely cannot hold yourself back from double/triple/quadruple texting, please leave more time between your questions than TWO HOURS. That is extremely overwhelming.