>>33407705
they all have the same kind of personality

>narcissistic
>some form of bpd or bd
>anxious/avoidant attachment style
>broken in some kind of way
>sort of a pick me too
>blames trauma to justify her actions

the last one was someone who uttered those words to me to. and she had those traits. minus three women who i've had feelings for, i've dealt with that most of my time dabbling in the dating or romance scene.

but this falls back in my stupid savior complex too. i need to remind myself constantly that i can't help everyone or help anyone who doesn't want to be helped. and it drives me nuts that i attract shit like this and knowing why mostly women like this come flocking to me like bees coming to a garden of flowers. it's my energy, the fact that they find my attention and validation intoxicating, and that i'm easy to talk to.

all i've done is really set stronger boundaries now, but there's more that needs to be done in my eyes. i can't figure out what though