>>33407755
nah. she just "living". her words too.

to elaborate, she was just doing whatever she wanted despite it being at the expense of others' feelings and time. she had left 2 long relationships and gotten in a situationship before she started talking to me and i tried to sit her down after she asked for help.

the problem when it cameto her was that she didn't work on herself. she's scared of being alone. she's never once in her life legitimately single or by herself and learn to be independent/self reflect. never stopped to process her previous break ups. just kept going thinking if she just found the next high, she can avoid sitting in her feelings. and this was something i addressed to her and she'd ignore. which gave me the answer i needed about who she was.