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Thanks anon, I can relate to a lot of that.
interestingly enough she also has vaginismus, and we've never been able to fully penetrate, its too tight and painful for her. she goes to a gyno that uses dialators to help her relax her muscles or whatever the issue is.
I didnt think about sensual vs sexual. We have a meeting with a sex therapist tomorrow. I'll see how it goes and hopefully i can learn something about myself