Anonymous
8/22/2025, 1:19:04 AM
No.33542634
>>33542594
Sounds like you lack charisma and come off as insecure/unsure of yourself. People pick up on this through your body language. It's kind of obvious that women don't like this, but men don't like it either. Other guys want to have a group of men that make them look good. A weak insecure guy makes them look bad by association.
Most people are lost in life and don't know what to do and they want a funny, secure, confident guy who can lead them or at least show them how to have a good time. They gravitate towards these kinds of people. On the other hand, they avoid men who are insecure and unsure because it just drags them down. Men who don't know what they're doing are a burden.
Sorry if that's harsh. You need a trusted friend, either a woman who is self-aware or a guy friend who gets laid a lot, to tell you what's up with your personality. My bet is they'll say something about how you're "too nice".
Sounds like you lack charisma and come off as insecure/unsure of yourself. People pick up on this through your body language. It's kind of obvious that women don't like this, but men don't like it either. Other guys want to have a group of men that make them look good. A weak insecure guy makes them look bad by association.
Most people are lost in life and don't know what to do and they want a funny, secure, confident guy who can lead them or at least show them how to have a good time. They gravitate towards these kinds of people. On the other hand, they avoid men who are insecure and unsure because it just drags them down. Men who don't know what they're doing are a burden.
Sorry if that's harsh. You need a trusted friend, either a woman who is self-aware or a guy friend who gets laid a lot, to tell you what's up with your personality. My bet is they'll say something about how you're "too nice".