>>33543407
Oh son, you didnt have a dad. I will be your dad

First of all, time to hop on finasteride, save your hairline and density

>black woman
They are usually more masculine than women of other races. You are not ready for that polarity yet

>I’m seeing
No, two dates and a kiss is not seeing. Its a talking stage

>wants me to get rid of my clothes and put generic ones

I will give you brutal love here. You do look like goa cultist with cheap drugs on you. The look you are going for, the spiritual magician, is not bad. Your execution is imbalanced and feals cheezy. It is your journey, it is your identity, but your sense of style should keep up

But, here is a trick. When a woman says that, critique is double layered with sexual polarity. A woman tells you how to live your life. A woman. A follower, a submissive little flower. Tells the king he should change his identity. If you wouldnt give her your pussy vibes, she would never dare to even imply your whole identity needs to be hidden. Are you following my words here?


>she’s ready to not continue with me after two dates

How does it work in your mind? A woman tells you directly she is not interested much. She maybe will, if you change yourself. Is this a solid foundation for sexuality or a relationship? You do realize you are playing female role here, entering a manly world of proving yourself and following rules, right?

>So it’s strange to want me to change so quickly
Okay, I will be direct and harsh. She feels you are a pussy. Female biology sees weakness and explores it. You reward that with even more weakness. Female biology is ecstatic, because now it knows for sure it avoided pregnancy by a weakest male, thus avoiding death of her and her children. Its survival thing. And it shows you where you are incompetent yet: sexual polarity and your biological role in courtship