>Matched with someone on an app
>Took about 5 days for her to reply, but I get the feeling she doesn't use it much
>Went on a fetlife kind of site last night looking around
>She's on there

When she does finally speak again should I use this to my advantage? That's smart thing to do isn't it? I don't mean say to her I saw her on there, I mean touch on things I know she obviously likes. I do like them too btw so I'm not lying and I didn't exactly go seeking her out like a serial killer I just stumbled across her.