>>33562920
It's a tricky one - there may be introverted women in your small town, but unless there's an excuse to bring them out (or you have a connection to their family already) they'll remain just that way. Yet there'd be less competition so you'd be in more demand.
There were a few around me in my youth, but I sucked at approaching them. Later I moved to a bigger city just to be around more younger women.
Here, I've found some success meeting them at language groups. Also the dnd campaign (IRL) I joined had an even split of genders. It's fun! But I had more reciprocity from women in the former than the latter, tho.
But that's all so far. I'd also like to hear suggestions from others, I also hate normaloids