how do i cope with being a 6? having crushes, desires, or even a sexuality feels pointless when 8s exist. like how do you cope with the fact that someone not trying at all is better than you giving your all? and that anyone who chooses you only settled because the 8s didn't want them past sex? it destroys me if i think about it for more than 2 seconds, but i'm not sure what to do with it or if it's even rational.