Anonymous
10/14/2025, 7:15:58 AM
No.33804562
>>33804522
Man, we were never even 'official'. For three years we were in this weird place of hooking up, celebrating holidays, birthdays, etc. But she'd never see me outside her house, in the dead of night. She'd never introduce me to her friends or family. I found out she was actually fielding invitations to family get togethers without telling me. Just weird shit.
Best I can figure, this is all about plausible deniability. She can never transgress the bounds of a relationship if she was never in a relationship to begin with.
She'll still reach out from time to time, but it's always just a bunch of nothing. She'll float plans to hang out that never materialize, etc. I think she just wants to make sure I'll still give her attention. If I could see her phone/snaps/DMs I'm sure I'd find a heap of other dudes stuck in my situation.
Man, we were never even 'official'. For three years we were in this weird place of hooking up, celebrating holidays, birthdays, etc. But she'd never see me outside her house, in the dead of night. She'd never introduce me to her friends or family. I found out she was actually fielding invitations to family get togethers without telling me. Just weird shit.
Best I can figure, this is all about plausible deniability. She can never transgress the bounds of a relationship if she was never in a relationship to begin with.
She'll still reach out from time to time, but it's always just a bunch of nothing. She'll float plans to hang out that never materialize, etc. I think she just wants to make sure I'll still give her attention. If I could see her phone/snaps/DMs I'm sure I'd find a heap of other dudes stuck in my situation.