Anonymous
10/14/2025, 7:17:19 AM
No.33804566
>>33804440
>Tell is what it is for a woman and how a man can properly show it.
Sure. I'll start by saying "Oh yes, I'm so emotionally connected to by bf because he doesn't hit me when I talk to him" is the most retarded incel shit I've ever heard. It's surreal levels of disconnected from reality.
Some of the ways women feel emotionally connected is when their partners show they're listening - getting tickets to their favorite play they always talk about, cooking a fun meal she mentioned she'd like to try. Sitting and listening to your partner is great but in real life, long term relationships just nodding and saying "uh huh" doesn't cut it. If you don't show that you actually absorb and assimilate information its no different than talking to a stump. Another way is sex and physical intimacy, of course. In psychology they call these "garbage moments". Some of the times people feel the closest to each other is through simple, mundane acts - touching her hips as she does dishes, kissing her cheek while she works on something, laughing together over something stupid while you drive to the store. They seem like small, meaningless gestures but all of these tiny moments of connectivity add up and build into strong emotional bonds. The concept of "garbage moments" is also used in the context of analyzing bonds between parents and children. Sometimes the most lasting memories of childhood are of very simple, every day moments.
Another way to emotionally connect is basic emotional mirroring, like monkeys do. Being sad for her when she's sad, being angry for her when she's angry, celebrating for her when she celebrates. In long term relationships women aren't looking for someone to just talk at. They want to feel like you're a team - that your wins and losses in life are shared experiences, not just a thing she goes through while you watch.
That's just a few. I can keep going if you like?
>Tell is what it is for a woman and how a man can properly show it.
Sure. I'll start by saying "Oh yes, I'm so emotionally connected to by bf because he doesn't hit me when I talk to him" is the most retarded incel shit I've ever heard. It's surreal levels of disconnected from reality.
Some of the ways women feel emotionally connected is when their partners show they're listening - getting tickets to their favorite play they always talk about, cooking a fun meal she mentioned she'd like to try. Sitting and listening to your partner is great but in real life, long term relationships just nodding and saying "uh huh" doesn't cut it. If you don't show that you actually absorb and assimilate information its no different than talking to a stump. Another way is sex and physical intimacy, of course. In psychology they call these "garbage moments". Some of the times people feel the closest to each other is through simple, mundane acts - touching her hips as she does dishes, kissing her cheek while she works on something, laughing together over something stupid while you drive to the store. They seem like small, meaningless gestures but all of these tiny moments of connectivity add up and build into strong emotional bonds. The concept of "garbage moments" is also used in the context of analyzing bonds between parents and children. Sometimes the most lasting memories of childhood are of very simple, every day moments.
Another way to emotionally connect is basic emotional mirroring, like monkeys do. Being sad for her when she's sad, being angry for her when she's angry, celebrating for her when she celebrates. In long term relationships women aren't looking for someone to just talk at. They want to feel like you're a team - that your wins and losses in life are shared experiences, not just a thing she goes through while you watch.
That's just a few. I can keep going if you like?