Anonymous
10/14/2025, 7:19:18 AM
No.33804574
>>33804535
It's definitely a maturity issue. If you can't be friends with the opposite sex while dating, then you've a lack of self control. It's good to be rounded out and have friends of all walks of life or else you'll become stagnate and your partner will become the sole opposite gender friend you have, which can strain the relationship. It's nice to talk about your feefees with women, it's just that you don't want to dump it all on one person, generally.
If you're friends with someone and they hit on you, you just show your SO, apologize, and tell the person you can't be friends anymore since they have feelings for you. It's not rocket science.
I had some dumb bitch recently make this huge effort to get my number and be my "friend" just to talk shit behind my back and tell people I'm "texting her too much even though she has a boyfriend" when she'd treat me normal to my face and over texting. It was clear in her case she was just immature and wanted to make drama, so I deleted her number without warning and cut her off. When she text me trying to start more shit, I pulled the "Who is this?" line on her and she left me alone. Maturity issue on her part, especially since I hadn't made any moves whatsoever and was literally calling her "sis."
Relationships where each partner is being strict about who the other is friends with either become unbearably miserable or never work out.
>>33804557
Thanks Anon
>>33804560
It's up to you what you do, but generally you just don't want to overdo it at the start. I'm not saying to be closed off, I'm saying to dripfeed and keep it interesting. It's like how if you made a new guy friend, you wouldn't instantly start telling him your tragic anime backstory. You'd just hang out and bond over some video games/hiking/lifting, and then as you bond over those things, you open up more. Otherwise, you'd scare the dude off or you'd make him think you're gay or some shit.
It's like in racing: Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.
It's definitely a maturity issue. If you can't be friends with the opposite sex while dating, then you've a lack of self control. It's good to be rounded out and have friends of all walks of life or else you'll become stagnate and your partner will become the sole opposite gender friend you have, which can strain the relationship. It's nice to talk about your feefees with women, it's just that you don't want to dump it all on one person, generally.
If you're friends with someone and they hit on you, you just show your SO, apologize, and tell the person you can't be friends anymore since they have feelings for you. It's not rocket science.
I had some dumb bitch recently make this huge effort to get my number and be my "friend" just to talk shit behind my back and tell people I'm "texting her too much even though she has a boyfriend" when she'd treat me normal to my face and over texting. It was clear in her case she was just immature and wanted to make drama, so I deleted her number without warning and cut her off. When she text me trying to start more shit, I pulled the "Who is this?" line on her and she left me alone. Maturity issue on her part, especially since I hadn't made any moves whatsoever and was literally calling her "sis."
Relationships where each partner is being strict about who the other is friends with either become unbearably miserable or never work out.
>>33804557
Thanks Anon
>>33804560
It's up to you what you do, but generally you just don't want to overdo it at the start. I'm not saying to be closed off, I'm saying to dripfeed and keep it interesting. It's like how if you made a new guy friend, you wouldn't instantly start telling him your tragic anime backstory. You'd just hang out and bond over some video games/hiking/lifting, and then as you bond over those things, you open up more. Otherwise, you'd scare the dude off or you'd make him think you're gay or some shit.
It's like in racing: Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.