>>33878502
Sad to read but I was / still slightly at heart like you
The thing is that the less experiences you have, exposure, you feel more.
It's really simple, if you're around girls a lot - you'll get used to them. Example is me. I used to attribute every interaction with a girl as something romantic, it disappointed me a lot of times. Nowadays, I'm talking to hot girls every week. And I look them in the eyes and we laugh and they are people to me
Without the element of me getting disappointed as badly as I did before.
And yeah man, going to events helped, dancing helped.. Singing helped, talking to a fuckload of people and hanging out with them is mainly what helped though. And I did that at events
So
I have been through exactly what you're going through, down to the letter
And so so so many other guys did
And it's easy to feel isolated but, your experience is shared by many
Just go out more and expose yourself to social interactions. I go out so much nowadays that I started not to miss people, because I know that they will be there next time I go out. Which is crazy, because I always felt like every time I go out especially to some amazing event it's like a core memory before I go and sit at home for another year or two