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>don't think about how your dick feels or about lasting and not cumming.
It's so hard not to, this is always in my mind :(

>You could try doing kegels
Yeah I've tried all the mental and physical techniques people have mentioned, none of them seem to make a difference for me. Sometimes I try to distract myself by thinking about boring things instead of focusing on the moment, but it barely helps me last any longer. Also it just feels counter-productive to me because I do want to give her all my attention in the brief times we get to be intimate together rather than being somewhere else mentally.

>Focus on the act itself. Focus on fucking her, look at her tits, look her in the eyes, grab her hips when you fuck her from behind. Focus on enjoying the fact you're fucking your woman, hone in on dickin her down
All of these things just make me cum even quicker, particularly the sensory stimulae (both visual and especially physical)

>the plap plap plap noise
Lol I force myself to go so slow that it doesn't make any sound at all. I have to hit it many times harder in order to hear it, so I usually don't. But sometimes I give in toward the end and go as hard as I can just to make sure she gets to at least feel *something*. Obviously I only get to enjoy a few seconds of that every handful of days (more like once a week lately) which is what makes it so frustrating for me.