>>33891511
witnessed this in online drama recently lol
some women claim to like that stuff due trauma and maybe they do for real, and maybe they due have a victim complex as a result. but even if we are victims to bad shit, we cannot stay in that mindset forever, that we are innocent of everything and are targeted by the world
disclaimer, have not used it to maliciously bend people to my will, but until recently i did get stuck in that thought process of being a perpetually damaged victim that wont get better. now i'm trying to work past it. i notice that people may get excessively coddled for mild trauma. and that unequal equivalencies are made between serious and minor shit. it leads to some over sympathetic hugbox that can really affect someone. they deserve support, but not in the way that keeps them trapped in their victim label
sorry for this word salad, i just needed to get my semi coherent thoughts out the way