It's hard to recon with yourself that you're the cause of your own troubles. Like, if it smells like shit everywhere you go, check under your own shoe.
Realizing that you can't be yourself because apparently it's not actually attractive. But having to come to terms with who you really are so that you can change is so difficult.
Not that I watch her, but I saw that standup bit when it came out from Iliza Schlesinger where she was making fun of the doomer blackpill incels, and I can't help but feel like some of her barbs were also pointed at me. I'm not angry at women or whatever, but I'm not fitting in with the society and ostracized by the pack.