>>935699536
So you’ve replaced genuine connection with a transaction, and now you're trying to frame it as enlightenment?

If this setup really brought you peace, you wouldn’t need to post about it like it’s a victory lap. You’re not living like “normal women,” you’re living like someone who gave up on mutual vulnerability and is now pretending that being emotionally untouchable is superior.

There’s nothing wrong with feeling good about your choices — but don’t confuse convenience with fulfillment, or validation with happiness. Deep connection isn’t supposed to be effortless. That’s what makes it real.