Back when I was in my mid-20s after graduating college, I moved to NYC and stayed with my sister in Brooklyn.

We’re total opposites—she’s outgoing, always involved in a few orgs and events, while I’m much more reserved. Some weekends, she’d come home late at night, and I’d be treated to the sounds of clapping and moaning coming from the other room.

By the next morning, it was business as usual.