>>936772297
here's the story if you're interested:
nopaste.net/AUySADomx2
>tl;dr
>i'd brought up letting her have a 'pass' if she was curious
>she'd always blow it off saying she never would
>so, she never really talked about boundaries and things
>she goes on a long trip back home without me
>i'm working an internship
>she goes out drinking with old friends
>ends up hooking up with her old high school crush without checking with me
>her being drunk and lonely, she eventually lets him inside her bare
>she tells me about it when she gets home
>i'm pissed because she let him cum in her
>she's pissed because she feels guilty, but also that i pushed her to it
>we fight a lot for a couple weeks
>find out she's pregnant
>forced to sit down and discuss things as adults
>ironically, that's likely what helped us get through it and save our marriage