>>937898049 all about timing, and time.

Dont rush anything. When you have time, take all of it.

Dont just check a box of technical achievement.

Make it actually different. Make it worth it.
Make it memorable enough to overcome guilt, concern for stds, etc.

And when it is done, do the necessary maintenance, and dont look back. Dont hide from it.

Your deeds are who you are. It is inescapable. Own it, or dont do it.