When your spouse doesn't value the physical relationship or honor the person she supposedly claimed to always honor. You're a man with needs. Too bad Craigslist is gone I had many experiences with several people. Closeted gay men fuck and suck like their lives depend on it and women with busted reproductive organs love creampies. Can go into more detail if you like. My current wife was the last person i cheated on my ex with. She came into the relationship knowing I'll get what i want if she decides she doesn't want to share herself with me when i want/need it.