Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:39:02 AM
No.937905227
>>937903943
Okay, the deep dive. Not wanting the sex is part of it, but not the whole thing. That could just be the libido having a moment. It'll do that sometimes.
The real red flags are that being around her isn't something you want. In the sense that if you aren't looking forward to doing things together; hobbies, mini dates, working together, just chilling on the sofa, cuddling, and obviously sex, then you're already done. Those things will feel more and more like a chore over time and it never gets better.
If you are at this stage but still want to stay committed, its because you want the self image of being dependable, reliable, honest, etc. And trust me, that is not worth the damage it will do to you to stay in a relationship where you're not loved or appreciated.
Especially bevause the moment she realises there is someone that genuinely enjoys spending time with her who hasn't been sucked dry, she'll drop you immediately. At least, that last part is what happened to me.
Okay, the deep dive. Not wanting the sex is part of it, but not the whole thing. That could just be the libido having a moment. It'll do that sometimes.
The real red flags are that being around her isn't something you want. In the sense that if you aren't looking forward to doing things together; hobbies, mini dates, working together, just chilling on the sofa, cuddling, and obviously sex, then you're already done. Those things will feel more and more like a chore over time and it never gets better.
If you are at this stage but still want to stay committed, its because you want the self image of being dependable, reliable, honest, etc. And trust me, that is not worth the damage it will do to you to stay in a relationship where you're not loved or appreciated.
Especially bevause the moment she realises there is someone that genuinely enjoys spending time with her who hasn't been sucked dry, she'll drop you immediately. At least, that last part is what happened to me.