Anonymous
8/2/2025, 8:26:03 PM
No.937926271
>>937899296
>>937901741
>>937915592
All true.Current wife cheated and I discovered about 2 months ago. My soul is irreparably damaged. I can't trust her for anything anymore. The love we had is gone. I provided for her, did everything a good man does to honor his wife and marriage. Had amazing mind-blowing sex consistently. She went for a training at work that was 2 months in duration and about 2-3 weeks in began cheating the rest of the duration. Only reason she stopped was the affair partner was also married with kids and he cut her off despite her trying to make advances still. I hypothesize that had he been single, she would've left me for him. I am a broken shell of the man I was prior. Constant thoughts of I'm not good enough, strong enough, masculine enough, make enough money, the list goes on. Don't do it. If you have thoughts of cheating, you either course correct and re commit yourself, or leave the relationship. You can't possibly know the amount of trauma to someone you will cause when they think you're loyal and honest. Cheating on your partner can have the same effects as PTSD. Everything reminds me of her affair. Literally everything. Every word she said to him, every time we were on FaceTime and he was secretly there, all the times she said she was going to sleep and actually going to his room, and all the things she did for him have ruined me. She was the only woman I've ever worked this hard for and was legitimately in it for life with. Like someone else said, even if we were to separate, I cannot ever trust another woman, let alone another person ever again. The only thing that makes marriage and relationships work is honesty, loyalty, and true commitment to your SHARED values, morals and boundaries. The world actively attacks monogamous relationships. Please, don't do it anon.
>>937901741
>>937915592
All true.Current wife cheated and I discovered about 2 months ago. My soul is irreparably damaged. I can't trust her for anything anymore. The love we had is gone. I provided for her, did everything a good man does to honor his wife and marriage. Had amazing mind-blowing sex consistently. She went for a training at work that was 2 months in duration and about 2-3 weeks in began cheating the rest of the duration. Only reason she stopped was the affair partner was also married with kids and he cut her off despite her trying to make advances still. I hypothesize that had he been single, she would've left me for him. I am a broken shell of the man I was prior. Constant thoughts of I'm not good enough, strong enough, masculine enough, make enough money, the list goes on. Don't do it. If you have thoughts of cheating, you either course correct and re commit yourself, or leave the relationship. You can't possibly know the amount of trauma to someone you will cause when they think you're loyal and honest. Cheating on your partner can have the same effects as PTSD. Everything reminds me of her affair. Literally everything. Every word she said to him, every time we were on FaceTime and he was secretly there, all the times she said she was going to sleep and actually going to his room, and all the things she did for him have ruined me. She was the only woman I've ever worked this hard for and was legitimately in it for life with. Like someone else said, even if we were to separate, I cannot ever trust another woman, let alone another person ever again. The only thing that makes marriage and relationships work is honesty, loyalty, and true commitment to your SHARED values, morals and boundaries. The world actively attacks monogamous relationships. Please, don't do it anon.