Anonymous
8/4/2025, 7:58:41 PM
No.938011015
>>938008383
I don't mean to sound mean or brag about my own relationship or anything, but how on earth do people unironically have relationships where you aren't even comfortable to talk about each others past sexual experiences? Isn't being able to do that like the absolute basis of a healthy relationship? Are you literally 16yo or something? Are you some sort of extremely conservative religious person? What is going on?
Anyway, me ranting aside, getting a woman to talk about her sexual is largely the responsibility of the man. I've gotten women to admit stuff while on the 3rd date that they've never admitted to their ex that they had been with for years. It's all about giving her the idea that you don't judge her, while also not getting emotional about it. So if you ask her something and she's not willing to say it, just stoicly laugh at it as if it's silly that she's afraid to talk about it, and say something like "hehe ok sure, if you don't want to talk about that that's fine". This way you are communicating to her that you are not judging and that you respect her not wanting to talk, while also showing that it's kinda silly that she's not willing to talk about it. Without no time she's going to become more open towards you.
I don't mean to sound mean or brag about my own relationship or anything, but how on earth do people unironically have relationships where you aren't even comfortable to talk about each others past sexual experiences? Isn't being able to do that like the absolute basis of a healthy relationship? Are you literally 16yo or something? Are you some sort of extremely conservative religious person? What is going on?
Anyway, me ranting aside, getting a woman to talk about her sexual is largely the responsibility of the man. I've gotten women to admit stuff while on the 3rd date that they've never admitted to their ex that they had been with for years. It's all about giving her the idea that you don't judge her, while also not getting emotional about it. So if you ask her something and she's not willing to say it, just stoicly laugh at it as if it's silly that she's afraid to talk about it, and say something like "hehe ok sure, if you don't want to talk about that that's fine". This way you are communicating to her that you are not judging and that you respect her not wanting to talk, while also showing that it's kinda silly that she's not willing to talk about it. Without no time she's going to become more open towards you.