Anonymous
8/10/2025, 11:39:31 PM
No.938283568
>>938279065
>I can only imagine therapy making things worse
This. My mom sent me to therapy after she caught me getting fucked by my stepdad. And yeah, I won't pretend that what me and my stepdad was "healthy" or anything... but I still viewed it as a positive experience and was basically in love with the guy. But rather than try to work through any sexual/emotional issues or insecurity about my sexuality, the therapist (and my mom) were solely focused on demonizing my stepdad, trying to convince me that I was an abused victim with no agency who couldn't have possibly enjoyed any of what happened, and that I should spill details and rat my stepdad the fuck out so that they could go after him criminally. And of course the therapist didn't want to hear anything about how actually no, I felt like my mom was way more abusive actually, and hey no I actually am gay not just "confused" by what happened, etc.
>I can only imagine therapy making things worse
This. My mom sent me to therapy after she caught me getting fucked by my stepdad. And yeah, I won't pretend that what me and my stepdad was "healthy" or anything... but I still viewed it as a positive experience and was basically in love with the guy. But rather than try to work through any sexual/emotional issues or insecurity about my sexuality, the therapist (and my mom) were solely focused on demonizing my stepdad, trying to convince me that I was an abused victim with no agency who couldn't have possibly enjoyed any of what happened, and that I should spill details and rat my stepdad the fuck out so that they could go after him criminally. And of course the therapist didn't want to hear anything about how actually no, I felt like my mom was way more abusive actually, and hey no I actually am gay not just "confused" by what happened, etc.