SIMPLE FACT:

by being isolated and sedentary playing video games when you were little boys, instead of playing sports or learning how to flirt with girls on the playground....

the isolation grew like a snowball
the deeper and deeper you became cemented into a life of isolation

and the less and less experience you gained with girls

You ended up in a plight, with absolutely no experience with girls, no relationship experience, Not even a platonic generic friendship with a girl who comes and hangs out with you...

meanwhile, You grew more and more comfortable engaging in sexual conversations with OTHER MEN ONLINE

asking sexual questions to other men
curious about their masturbation
curious about their penises

And the next thing you know
You're engaging in mutual masturbation with OTHER MEN in discord

ASEXUALITY Will eventually become homosexuality

when you finally become so desperate for a sexual experience that it doesn't even seem odd you're jacking off with another dude