"Involuntary celibate" doesn't exist period, male or female, because celibacy is by definition a choice and therefore always voluntary. People take a vow of celibacy when they join a religious order or decide to be celibate because they don't want to play society's games or don't want to be led around by their own dick. If you have not made a conscious decision to forgo sexual activity and still want things you can't have, that isn't being celibate. You're just a loser who can't get laid.