in a way, drawthreads ruined my life. technically not the drawthreads themselves, but rather the person I met through them back in 2016 that has now completely and utterly broken me. if you occasionally lurk like I do, or if you've been in these threads for that long besides fuckin shadow, you'd be surprised who it was that did this shit, too. meet people locally, even if it's through a dating app, cause long distance is not the way to start a relationship.