Can confirm what others are saying - it’s great for the ego, but in practice makes finding partners that can handle it difficult. I love small girls and doggy is often off the table entirely, and I’m not even /huge/ - around 7.3” x 6.3” - getting a girl that can deepthroat it requires finding a very well practiced slut. Only had one partner that could do it reliably. More and more these days women seem to not want to give oral outside of foreplay at all, much less work on niche skills like throating a 7+ incher.

That being said, if you’re not looking for a stable relationship there are some nice upsides to the fetish aspect of it. Going on a work trip next week and all it took was posting a few decent quality dick pics on Reddit to get half a dozen women in my inbox asking to make plans, including an invite to a swingers/cuckold party. Hopefully at least one will have the skills to take it properly.