Anonymous
11/8/2025, 1:03:34 AM
No.942248348
>>942248060
I don't think pure devotion is ever healthy to be honest. Honesty and reciprocation. If you can do that and be mostly reliable, then you're fine to be in a relationship. I'm not reliable and I have substance abuse issues. I could see how bad it would've been both for me and my friend who was trying very hard to be in a relationship with me, for us to have been in one. But I'm glad she's found a healthy relationship now, because I did put a lot of effort into helping her leave the unhealthy one she'd been stuck in for so many years. I wasn't about to subject her to another one with me :)
I don't think pure devotion is ever healthy to be honest. Honesty and reciprocation. If you can do that and be mostly reliable, then you're fine to be in a relationship. I'm not reliable and I have substance abuse issues. I could see how bad it would've been both for me and my friend who was trying very hard to be in a relationship with me, for us to have been in one. But I'm glad she's found a healthy relationship now, because I did put a lot of effort into helping her leave the unhealthy one she'd been stuck in for so many years. I wasn't about to subject her to another one with me :)