Anonymous
11/8/2025, 3:41:01 AM
No.942254394
>>942253741
Continuing with lacanian psychoanalysis, you must now do two things - consider that the object of your desire was always already lost, that is, the experience of loss reawakens a more fundamental lack that is inherent to humanity. The melancholia that you feel is therefore structural - you didn't lose anything per se.
To move beyond this, you must now learn to accept this inherant lack instead of being destroyed by it. Then, you relearn to desire again. You are not the lost lover - you can learn to desire/love again.
Continuing with lacanian psychoanalysis, you must now do two things - consider that the object of your desire was always already lost, that is, the experience of loss reawakens a more fundamental lack that is inherent to humanity. The melancholia that you feel is therefore structural - you didn't lose anything per se.
To move beyond this, you must now learn to accept this inherant lack instead of being destroyed by it. Then, you relearn to desire again. You are not the lost lover - you can learn to desire/love again.