>>150760854
Waifufaggotry is a purer love. Men will keep their waifus for years, if not eternally.
Yumeshipping/self shipping is more of a “this is what I’m hyper fixated on this month”. Only women do it, and it’s a fleeting adoration. Usually they keep the character for a few months until something else catches their interest, it’s rare for a woman to have one for more than a year or two.