Anonymous
5/13/2025, 7:24:34 AM
No.11286514
>>11286498
Part 2:
In terms of how people reacted to him, it was pretty mixed. We lived in an urban, left wing city and he didn't have any tattoos / piercings so a lot of people probably just assumed he had a hormone problem or was FTM. He wore a minimizer bra when he had to go into the office (once a week) but his company had him working from home 90% of the time so he didn't really have to deal with much from coworkers. One asked if he was trans. Other than that, they didn't really seem to care much. He wore baggy clothes + minimizers when going out and a lot of people would look at his chest and then look away. He never had any facial hair, and I think if he'd gone for that really weird non-binary fusion look then there might have been more prejudice.
My own experience with his chest was a lot of fun. I thought they were attractive (the majority of women did not, my friends asked me several times why I stayed as long as I did). I liked having something new to play with and, as I said above, the fact that he now had to deal with boobs was kind of fun. And squeezing boobs is always great for stress relief.
Finally, I think most men who want boobs probably have issues with AGP. While I cared a lot about my ex, he definitely needed to go to therapy. He had a difficult childhood and I felt like his AGP was a maladaptive coping mechanism. I read several accounts on the r/Detrans reddit by men who were similar to him. Most never pass. They often take hormones and develop tiny moobs and get fat. One study showed 90% end up with A cups:
https://www.folxhealth.com/library/estrogen-hrt-breast-growth#:~:text=They%20found%20that%20over%2090,oral%20or%20transdermal%20estrogen%20route.
Another study found most transwomen get the majority of their growth in the first 6 to 9 months:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8664122/
...So that was my experience dating a guy with boobs. Fun but please talk to a non-affirming doctor so you don't spiral.
Part 2:
In terms of how people reacted to him, it was pretty mixed. We lived in an urban, left wing city and he didn't have any tattoos / piercings so a lot of people probably just assumed he had a hormone problem or was FTM. He wore a minimizer bra when he had to go into the office (once a week) but his company had him working from home 90% of the time so he didn't really have to deal with much from coworkers. One asked if he was trans. Other than that, they didn't really seem to care much. He wore baggy clothes + minimizers when going out and a lot of people would look at his chest and then look away. He never had any facial hair, and I think if he'd gone for that really weird non-binary fusion look then there might have been more prejudice.
My own experience with his chest was a lot of fun. I thought they were attractive (the majority of women did not, my friends asked me several times why I stayed as long as I did). I liked having something new to play with and, as I said above, the fact that he now had to deal with boobs was kind of fun. And squeezing boobs is always great for stress relief.
Finally, I think most men who want boobs probably have issues with AGP. While I cared a lot about my ex, he definitely needed to go to therapy. He had a difficult childhood and I felt like his AGP was a maladaptive coping mechanism. I read several accounts on the r/Detrans reddit by men who were similar to him. Most never pass. They often take hormones and develop tiny moobs and get fat. One study showed 90% end up with A cups:
https://www.folxhealth.com/library/estrogen-hrt-breast-growth#:~:text=They%20found%20that%20over%2090,oral%20or%20transdermal%20estrogen%20route.
Another study found most transwomen get the majority of their growth in the first 6 to 9 months:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8664122/
...So that was my experience dating a guy with boobs. Fun but please talk to a non-affirming doctor so you don't spiral.