>>11317053
You have to decide what's a deal breaker for you. But hiding parts of yourself from your partner is a losing strategy. My wife knows what I like and how I like it, even if the level of involvement is maybe not what I'd prefer.
I'd love to get more pegging in, for example, but she's not as into it, so it's only an occasional thing. That's not a deal breaker for me - I'm pretty happy to do anal solo, so it works out.
There's so many people out there, and you've got to remember that you're dating to filter them out, not to make a relationship happen regardless of the sacrifices.