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>Whenever I get hard the entire cage pushes away
Harness or shoelace around your waist. This is more prominent in cages with more leeway, where your penis can get harder and push out more.
>I can just hook my finger in there and pull my penis out
Like a noodle, at full softness you can get penis out of any cage, it's the balls that anchor it. For keeping your cock in you need either piercings or urethral approaches.