>>11364620
Not sure I completely understand, but I think I do. My initial experience in school was not stepping on any toes, avoiding confrontation and trying to be everybody's friend. Turned out it mostly works, but there are people that just hate you for what you are, not what you do, they can't help it. I treat creative success not as converting this kind of people, but reaching the ones that would already get along with you if they knew you. However talking about fetish shit, this amount is a small one and you can't reach your crowd without getting in front of all the ones that'd get upset, offended and try to fuck with you for it. I have a persistent anxiety that I get attention and people decide to Salman Rushdie my ass. I could self-censor all the lewd stuff out and reach a bigger audience, but I feel I'd be cheating myself and writer's income is peanuts anyway. Maybe I'm just not badass/blackpilled enough for this line of work.

I guess I'll try the military psychologist anime guy's method anyway

>>11364636
That sounds quite cool, couldn't find a website to steal the book from, but I found his old blog with snippets. I found that offending people is way easier and more effective than getting them to like you