>>76278547
now you are just throwing around made up numbers.
You see other's people lives superficially and you think that they are all sunshine and rainbows, while sometimes even the people who seem to have everything going their way might hide huge traumas. Throwing statistics around is pointless when you talk about individuals, you are one person and wasting time pondering your odds will do you no good.
Yes life is unfair and often tragic, but all you can do is work with what you have and try to find what little happiness you can afford to grab for yourself, that might be a lot but it's much more likely to be only a little, it's still better than nothing. Comparing yourself with luckier people serves no purpose other than making you feel like shit, so why do it? And why don't you compare yourself with people less lucky than you?