>>105894020
I wouldn't call them pathetic, that would imply they are weak and unconfident, which they usually are not. They are usually confident to the point of arrogance, sure in their own abilities and project authority. Charming assholes would be a better description.

But unfortunately you often need those traits if you want to lead, people generally want to be led by people who project themselves as winners, meek, weak leaders rarely last long