it's not discord's fault that you engage in such communities. I've joined about 30 servers but only ever use two because they're comfy, share my sense of humor or interest and do not spam every channel with retarded tiktok doomscroll slop. If you chat with literal kids and manchildren that's your own fault man.
Out of all social media platforms discord is one I can hate the least, though ofc I'd prefer if foss alternatives were more popular and functional because big file uploads and high quality streams being exclusive to a paywall is so gay and typical.