>>29358968
>or feel like you're not in control

I'm the anon you responded to. Cucks hand over control of their sexual agency to their woman and another guy, who's usually in better shape than them and has all the confidence of a guy that you're asking to make your wife into a creature of raw sexual pleasure on his dick. Unless that's a shared kink, and that can happen, you're done.

You put your wife on another man's dick and she acted like the slut you wanted her to be, but not with you. You might pay the bills, but now that's all you are. An atm. And once the wife is just another bitch, you won't see her the same either.

Be a man. Take care of your shit. Not talking about making dinner for the family, I'm talking about your attitude about yourself. Self hating without realizing it is the real toxic masculinity. We get told we ain't shit but we're expected to make a fortune, put everyone else first, and check our privilege while getting shit on. Makes it easier for someone to shut you up and take away your voice, time, and energy. Even the people who say they love you. And if you and your wife want her to eat another man's load while you jerk off to it, you don't love each other. You're both using each other, but you're the man and you're the only one getting screwed.

Do not allow this shit in your relationship.