I wrote earlier in the month how our bull contacted me after my wife paused cuckolding because he was catching feelings for her and I have an update. He ended up calling my wife but she let it go to voicemail so we could listen together. He talked about how he didn't know whether or not I talked to her about meeting with him which I didn't. It was mostly a checkup to see how she was doing and whether she had given some thought of going back to having a sexual relationship and how he vowed to keep it at that if that's what she wanted but he really wants to be involved in her life no matter how small the role is. After he was done she asked me why I didn't tell them I met with him and I said I didn't want to force her back in if she wasn't ready. It looked like she needed more time to think about it and I don't want her to be rushed to make a decision. She really liked that and did admit she wasn't ready but she did miss the sex she had with him. She made it clear though if she were go back no more vacations or long weekends with him. As fun as it was that's where she feels the lines blur and she doesn't want to give him the wrong idea. I told her I was fine with that. She does need more time before she feels ready to do it again and wants us all to speak together laying down the ground rules before we start back up. I know it's not much but at least we have some progress and of course any advice from you all is certainly appreciated.