>>216392367
You're not paying for it, you're relying on others to cover the rest. You're own existence of "independence" cannot exist without "leeching" off others. Our entire value in this life is measured in your ability to maximise your leeching opportunities. You should aim to have yourself put together, yes, but let's not live in delusion. None of us are truly independent, humans have and always will be a collective species.