>>28703381
part of being married is understanding you're no longer an individual, but rather one half of a unified pair in the eyes of God. That means you have to make compromises on the shit you want. "so what if I've got a wife and kids, I want to party and be my own man" is a boomerism that led to 50% of their marriages ending in divorce.
>but what about the wifey getting what she wants
you're a weak coward who didn't hold her to the same standards she holds you, that's on you friend.