>>508719430
That's fucked up bro.

I'm almost your age. By my late 20s I tell you I already did not have the same "drive" or the same romantic desires as I did when I was younger.
For you the major question is: What do you want in your life? What do you want to get girls for?

Unironically the approach will be very different if you just want to lose your virginity or if you want to marry a good girl as quickly as possible (because you're getting older).

Then comes the question of what sort of girls you want to invest in. How hot / how young / how much quality do you want in them as a person / what social class / damage or not that damaged, etc.

At that age and with so little experience it's actually unbelievably hard because you're either invisible for most girls or you are a walking billboard telling girls to not mess with you.
And most likely as you get intimate with a girl in ways you had not been before your clumsiness and nervous manners and blatant inexperience will betray you as "akward".

So you really want to take an honest look at your situation and what you want.
Then realise whatever you want to do you don't have much time to do it (unless you're filthy rich) and then if you want to put in the effort - and it will demand effort - you'll have to keep on fighting for "victories" that are still very entry level while girls are not particularly interested in those "victories".

As in if walking hand in hand with a girl is a victory to you... for a 30 years old girl is probably nothing and just a sign that the man is into her.

Whatever you do I'd say don't give up. Simply because you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.