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>ill only go for a girl if she gives me clear signals
This is the way for sensitive lads.
Being sociable and confident with your male peers is how you show a woman your status
Not by acting like an asshole to other guys, but by showing you are not some outcast by any means(even if you see yourself as one in your heart)
If they see you can have fun, are mature, and get on well with your fellow males they won't write you off.
Sometimes it takes more than the first meet, sometimes it's after party number 3 she finally has enough booze to say or give you a sig.
I smoke, so a lot of times women who find me attractive that also smoke will pretend to not have their own cigarettes, and approach and ask for one
This gives her an indirect excuse to move in close, and stand in proximity for the duration of the cigarette and talk to me.

If she asks for one and walks away with it, she was just bumming a smoke before going back to her own agenda