>>508764144
I'm in a relationship with bpd girl for 10 months and it's not my first rodeo of that kind.
Yes, she is urged internally to sabotage the whole relationship and unconciously manifest abandonment but most important thing is that she always understands that she is the problem.
You as a man must always have inner peace and this will be the main thing that will be targeted. You must not stray away from this at ANY cost.
If you're dating a bpd girl first thing you should look for is self awareness, if she embraces her disorder there is no hope of her being a net positive in your life no matter what because ultimately that personality is destructive in its core.
You must shame. You must push. You must deflect. You must mantain authority and control and make her yearn for that inner peace she can not achieve because of her personality disorder.
Now if this is the case you really do have a workhorse sex slave at your disposal that needs to be responsibly controlled but in a subversive way. She will ultimately embrace worldview you have and your beliefs.
Bpd is femininity unhinged. Can be both bad and good, it's up to you how you utilize it.